This Father Declared His Children ‘Dead’—Here’s the Shocking Story
For years, a famous Hollywood family has been in the news because of a big split between a father and his children. What started as a loving relationship turned into bitterness and distance. Now, there are talks about them possibly reconciling, but can they really heal from the past?
The father in this Hollywood story once found success in both music and acting, but his personal life soon became the focus of the media. His two children, who went on to have their own successful careers, grew up in a world of fame. However, behind the glitzy exterior, tensions were building that eventually led to a major public feud.
Decades of unresolved problems and family conflicts led to a shocking moment when this father publicly cut ties with his children. After the pain that followed, recent interviews suggest there might be hope for healing, leaving many to wonder if this broken family can truly come back together.
The actor and musician met their children’s mother in 1975 on a flight from New York to Los Angeles. Their chance meeting felt like a scene from a movie, and the couple quickly fell in love. At the time, their father was becoming a star, performing with his band, The Hudson Brothers, and enjoying TV appearances and tours with famous acts like The Beach Boys and The Monkees.
Their fast-moving romance led to marriage in 1976, right as they were expecting their first child. Three years later, they welcomed a daughter, completing their seemingly perfect family. However, soon after their marriage, problems began to show.
The father shared that he wanted a traditional marriage, but his wife couldn’t settle down. This difference in values put a strain on their relationship, leading to their divorce in 1981. He eventually moved out, marking the start of a tough time for the family. While he initially stayed involved with his children, things became difficult after the divorce, and he felt pushed away by his ex-wife.
As their mother’s career took off and she began dating another actor, the children slowly drifted from their biological father. He also entered another relationship, making his presence in their lives even less frequent.
In June 2015, tensions boiled over publicly when the eldest child shared a controversial post on Instagram. On Father’s Day, he posted a childhood photo of himself, his sister, and their father, with the caption, “Happy Abandonment Day.” This post quickly attracted a lot of attention.
The father’s reaction was strong. In an emotional interview, he expressed feelings of betrayal, saying his son’s post was a planned attack. “He is dead to me now. As is his sister. I am mourning their loss even though they are still alive,” he said sadly.
As the situation grew more public, the father blamed much of the family separation on his ex-wife. He claimed that his relationship with his children changed when she became more involved with her new partner. He accused her of “parental alienation,” saying she turned their children against him.
The father described how his relationship with his children suffered as their mother’s influence increased. He felt that she created a story where her new partner was viewed as the children’s dad, while he was pushed aside. He recalled how visits with his children were often canceled due to sudden trips their mother would take them on without telling him.
As their daughter became a well-known Hollywood star, she also grew further apart from her father. While he claimed he tried to stay close, she publicly called him an absentee father, stating she never received birthday cards from him. He countered that he sent cards and tried to call every year. The emotional pain of being apart affected him deeply, and he even removed all signs of his two eldest children from his home.
On the same Father’s Day, their daughter also posted on social media but chose to honor her mother’s partner instead of her father. She shared a sweet picture with him, captioning it, “Pa, just simply… thank you. Happy Father’s Day. I love you to the moon and back.”
This left the father heartbroken. He felt rejected and told the media that if his daughter wanted to call her mother’s partner her father, she should stop using his last name. “I set you free. I had five birth children but I now consider myself a father of three. I no longer recognize them as my own,” he stated bitterly.
Despite the years of separation and public arguments, the father expressed that his feelings toward his children were complicated. He often remembered the love he once had for them and cherished their early years as a family. He recalled the joy of becoming a father when his son was born and the deep bond he felt with him. When his daughter arrived three years later, his love for her was just as strong.
He painted a picture of a devoted father who shared a close relationship with his children for a time. He cherished those memories, which made the later separation even harder. He reflected, “There was this deep love among the four of us for years. And that’s what makes it so difficult to say goodbye.”
He regretted how things turned out and felt deeply hurt by the Father’s Day events in 2015 when his children made public statements that affected him greatly.
While the father expressed his hurt, Kate and Oliver Hudson shared their feelings about the distance from their biological father in various interviews. They acknowledged the gap between them and Bill but had mixed emotions about it. Kate, in particular, mentioned how her relationship with Bill influenced her but noted that she didn’t hold any anger toward him. In a 2016 interview, she said that her mother, Goldie Hawn, never spoke badly about him, and she understood that the situation was hard for him.
Recently, she admitted that she didn’t have much of a relationship with him but said it was improving. “I don’t really have one, but it’s warming up,” she said, adding, “I just want him to be happy.”
In a 2021 interview, Kate openly discussed growing up distant from Bill but acknowledged that “estrangement is unfortunately quite common.” Oliver, on the other hand, initially used humor to address the distance, but his tone changed in later interviews. He revealed in 2018 that he and Bill were trying to reconnect and had exchanged some texts, showing signs of a possible thaw in their relationship.
Although both Kate and Oliver recognized the distance, recent updates suggest they are open to mending things after years of separation. In May 2024, Bill confirmed that the family was taking steps toward reconciliation. He viewed their relationship positively, saying, “Kate put it perfectly. We are warming up and letting things take their course.” He seemed ready to start fresh, putting behind the hurt and misunderstandings of the past.
Kate and Oliver have enjoyed successful careers in Hollywood, with Kate becoming famous for her roles in films like “Almost Famous,” while Oliver has made a name for himself in shows like “Rules of Engagement” and “Scream Queens.”
Despite their achievements, they have dealt with the scars from their relationship with their father. However, their relationship is slowly improving after years of pain and public conflicts. The family is now taking small but meaningful steps toward healing.
